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Welcome to Dave and Vera’s 2021 Dinner Celebration of Serbian Christmas

Several years ago, I got to thinking about how we used to go to Nana’s house to celebrate Serbian Christmas. That tradition had more or less dwindled down to phone calls wishing family Merry Christmas. I decided that I didn’t want to let that tradition slip away completely. I want my grandsons to know about that part of where they come from, so we started having a dinner to get everyone together and keep the day special and remembered. I can’t say how many years we’ve been doing this now, but it has grown from just immediate family to an event attended by family and friends. I think one year, when Zach and Elise hosted the dinner at their house, there were around 20 people.

This year, due to COVID, we won’t be getting together for dinner. Instead, we have decided to copy our friends at the winery and are inviting all of you to join. We will be having our dinner on Sunday, January 10 due to work schedules. The menu has been scaled down to a dinner for two (except for the soup, there’ll be enough for a meal later in the week) but can easily be scaled up if needed.

The Menu

Roasted Butternut Squash and Red Bell Pepper Soup

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Herb Roasted Prime Rib for Two

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Crisp Roasted Fingerling Potatoes

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Creamy Peas with Bacon and Boursin Garlic and Fine Herbs

For the Soup

Serves 4

Buy a 4-ounce hunk of pancetta from the deli counter, not the presliced variety.

4 oz. pancetta, cut into ½-inch pieces (*see notes at the end)

2 lbs. butternut squash, cut in half, lengthwise, and seeded

Olive oil

1 red bell pepper, stemmed, seeded, and chopped

1 onion, chopped fine

3 garlic cloves, minced

1 tsp. dried thyme

1 tsp. dried rosemary

1 tsp. salt

½ tsp. pepper

4 cups chicken broth

1 TBS sherry vinegar

2 TBS chopped fresh chives

For the Herb Roasted Prime Rib

1 (1 ½ lb.) bone-in rib-eye steak, 1 ½ inches thick,* trimmed

Salt

Herb Paste

1 Tbs. minced fresh thyme

1 Tbs. minced fresh rosemary

2 tsp. Dijon mustard

2 tsp. olive oil

1 tsp. all-purpose flour

¼ tsp. sugar

For the Crisp Roasted Fingerling Potatoes

1 pound fingerling potatoes, halved lengthwise

¼ cup salt

¼ tsp. baking soda

1 Tbs. olive oil

⅛ tsp. pepper

For the Creamy Peas with Bacon and Boursin Garlic and Fine Herbs

2 slices bacon, chopped

⅓ cup heavy cream

½ pound frozen peas, not thawed

2 scallions, sliced thin

1 ¼ oz. Boursin Garlic and Fine Herbs (about ¼ of the package)

Assembly

A day or two before, make the soup.

  • Preheat the oven to 425⁰. Line a rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper. Coat the inside of each half of the squash with olive oil (about ½ tsp. each half). Sprinkle with salt and pepper. Turn squash cut side down on the parchment paper and roast until tender, about 30-40 minutes. Remove from oven and set aside until cool enough to handle.
  • When squash has cooled, scoop from shell and cut into 1 inch cubes. Set aside.
  • *Cook pancetta in a Dutch oven over medium heat until browned and crispy, about 7 minutes. Using a slotted spoon, transfer pancetta to paper towel lined plate. Once cooled, store in an air-tight container in the refrigerator until ready to serve.
  • Add bell pepper and onion to fat left in the pot and cook over medium-high heat until onion is softened, about 5 minutes, stirring occasionally.  Add garlic, thyme, rosemary, salt and pepper , and squash and cook until garlic is fragrant, about 30 seconds. Stir in broth and bring to boil, scraping up any browned bits. Reduce heat to a simmer and cook, covered, until squash is heated through, 5 – 10 minutes. Remove pot from heat.
  • Working with 2 cups at a time, process soup in a blender until smooth, about 1 minute.  Cool and place in an air-tight container in the refrigerator.

The Day Of

  • Remove steak from refrigerator 1 -2 hours before cooking, pat dry with paper towels, season with salt, place on a wire rack to allow air circulation and allow to come to room temperature.
  • For the Herb Paste, combine the minced fresh thyme, minced fresh rosemary, Dijon mustard, olive oil, flour and sugar in a small bowl. Set aside.
  • Bring 4 cups of water to a boil in a medium saucepan over medium-high heat. Stir in Potatoes, salt, and baking soda Cook until potatoes are tender but centers offer slight resistance when pierced with a paring knife, 8 – 10 minutes. Drain potatoes in a colander and shake vigorously to roughen the edges. Transfer to a large platter lined with a clean dishtowel and let sit until no longer steaming and surface is tacky, about 5 minutes.
  • Meanwhile, while potatoes are boiling, adjust oven rack to the lowest position and pre-heat oven to  500⁰. Heat 2 tsp. oil in a 12 inch, oven-proof skillet over medium-high heat until just smoking. Pat steak dry again, if necessary, and brown all over, including the edges, about 10-12 minutes. Transfer steak to an oven proof wire rack set inside a rimmed baking sheet and set aside.
  • Transfer potatoes to a large bowl and toss with 1 tsp of oil and pepper. If necessary, pour off drippings or *add oil to the hot skillet the steak was browned in, to equal about 2 tsp and swirl around to coat the pan. Carefully place potatoes, cut side down, in the hot skillet, in an even layer, pressing on the potatoes to ensure the cut sides are flush with the bottom of the skillet. Place the skillet in the oven, on the lowest rack, and bake until the cut sides are crisp and the skins are spotty brown, 15 – 18 minutes. Flip the potatoes cut side up and let cool in the pan.
  • While the potatoes are cooking, spread the herb paste evenly over  the top of the steak.
  •  Once the potatoes are done, reduce the oven temperature to 200⁰. Place the rimmed baking sheet with the steak on the wire rack on the lowest rack in the oven. Roast  until the steak registers approx. 130⁰ for medium (120⁰ – 125⁰ for med-rare; 135⁰ for well) about 30 minutes. Place on a carving board, tent loosely with foil, and let rest 5 – 10 minutes. If need be, return skillet with potatoes to the oven to re-heat while steak is resting.
  • While the steak is roasting, heat the soup over medium-low heat and  cook the peas. In a large, non-stick skillet over medium-high heat, cook the bacon until crisp, about 5 minutes. Transfer to a paper towel-lined plate and discard drippings.
  • Add cream to empty skillet and simmer until thickened, 3 -5 minutes. Stir in peas and scallions, cover, and cook until heated through, about 8 minutes. Off the heat, stir in the Boursin Garlic and Fine Herbs until smooth. Season with salt and pepper and sprinkle with bacon.
  • When soup is hot, just before serving, stir in vinegar. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
  • Carve the bone from the steak and cut the steak on bias into ½ inch thick slices.  Sprinkle individual portions of soup with chives and pancetta. Serve and enjoy!

*Notes:

* Pre-sliced pancetta is generally too thin and will likely burn. If unable to find pancetta, substitute bacon.

* Render fat trimmed from the steak in a 250⁰ oven. Use the rendered fat in place of the oil when cooking the potatoes.

David’s Revelation

 

I recently had a dream. Actually, I had two dreams. In the first dream, I was painting a picture. It was a picture of a great, wooden wagon wheel floating in the universe. The center of the wheel, the hub, was an intense white light, with the wooden spokes radiating outward from it to the wooden rim bound by iron. Each spoke had a name burned into it, Hinduism, Buddhism, Judaism, Christianity, Islam, etc..

The wooden rim was the earth, the world we live in, with all of the people of the world. While the people could travel around the world, they could not move any farther away from the center. The iron tire symbolized the limits of our world. The only direction the people could go, other than going around in circles on earth, was to turn inward and go to the center, the hub which supports the entire world. The center from which the world originated. The center which we all came from.

The hub of this wheel, the intense white light, is God. The source of our existence. The spokes of the wheel, representing the multitude of religions which exist in our world, are our pathways to God. They all originated from the same source. They all originated from God. They are all pathways leading to the same destination.

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In the second dream, it was made known to me that the true revelation, in the sense of “an enlightening or astonishing disclosure” [Merriam-Webster], is yet to come. I dreamed that God gave to each of the founders of the world’s religions, a puzzle piece. When we finally realize that God placed compassion and love at the core of those religions and come to, as H.H. the Dalai Lama envisions, a “true kinship of faiths”, then we can bring the pieces of the puzzle together, and we will have the key to unlock the chains that prevent us from living in a world free from suffering caused by humankind. We will have the key to peace on earth.

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Those were the dreams I had. Perhaps it will take the apocalypse described in the Book of Revelations to bring about this realization. I recently read an article in Mother Jones that had to do with the support of evangelical Christians for President Trump. It seems as though they are hopeful he will get us into a war with Iran or hopefully, to their way of thinking, the apocalypse, and this will bring about the “End Times”. They are not worried about nuclear war or the end of the world – they are ready for it.

I personally do not have much faith in the idea that any war will bring about everlasting peace on earth. It suggests that the way to peace is by the extermination of those who do not think like US. But where does it end? No two of us are alike.  Once those with different ideas about religion are eliminated, what is the next difference to justify extermination? War simply programs us to fear and mistrust others. It has been my experience that war brings about division, hatred, ignorance and fear, to name a few things. We need to move beyond fear and hatred if we truly desire peace. What we need for eternal peace is compassion and love. Unity and acceptance. We need to celebrate our similarities and learn to see ourselves in others.

“Thank You for Your Service”

“Thank you for your service.” That is something I hear quite often. When I go to a school to talk to a welding class about the boilermaker trade, or when I am addressing a class of apprentices, I tell them how I got to where I am today. How I joined the U.S. Army after high school as a welder and became a Boilermaker when I got out. Sometimes people thank me for my service because they noticed the Veteran license plates on my truck.

I must say, I’m not entirely comfortable with it. I didn’t join the Army after high school to be anyone’s hero. There were multiple reasons I joined. I didn’t care much for school, so I had no desire to go to college. My Grandfather was a WWII veteran and I grew up believing that serving one’s country was a duty. Mostly, I had no clue what to do with my life and it was a job that promised adventure and the opportunity to learn a skill that would enable me to find a decent job should I decide I wanted to do something else after my enlistment was up.

“Thank you for your service.” I do appreciate the gratitude. But, I still find it uncomfortable. I think mostly because of the perceived lack of sincerity. It is as though the person saying it is saying it because they feel obligated to, not because it is something they’ve given any thought to and are saying because they mean it. It seems to have become the phrase of the times, similar to telling a stranger “Have a Merry Christmas!” during the holiday season.

If you truly want to thank me for my service, here is what you can do – Honor those things that I swore to defend when I enlisted. The things so many have given their lives for. Through your actions, show me that you appreciate the time I spent in the service. I am sure others who served, or are currently serving, will agree.

Educate yourself about the freedoms you enjoy by living in this country. Citizens of many countries around the world don’t enjoy a fraction of the freedoms we do. Don’t take the freedoms you have for granted.

Don’t condemn those who choose to exercise their rights, especially the right of free speech. Speaking out against something you believe to be wrong, whether it is an elected official, or a policy, or a law, or any number of things, is far more patriotic than blindly waving the flag and following the crowd. Don’t tolerate the suppression  of another’s rights, the service men and women you are inclined to thank, are serving to protect those rights.

VOTE! Don’t just go to the polls or send in an absentee ballot voted on party lines, educate yourself about the candidates and the issues and make informed, intelligent decisions.

Numerous people have thanked me for my service, then have gone on to explain how they had thought about joining the Armed Forces but, for whatever reason, they didn’t and now they wish they had. Now is the time for you to serve your country. You don’t have to enlist – just participate in our democracy. Democracy is not a spectator sport, get involved. Pledge to dedicate some time, maybe as little as thirty minutes to an hour a day to become an informed citizen by seeking out factual information.

Get a voter information pamphlet from the Secretary of State’s office and read the summaries and actual language of the issues which will be on the ballot. Read the arguments for and against the different issues then think about where you stand. Think about why you support or oppose an issue. Make an informed decision based on facts. Beware of making decisions based on the emotional reactions that are triggered by the information to be found on social media, TV, radio, etc.. That information is mostly paid for by special interests and is designed to stir up your emotions so you will disregard facts. Ask yourself what those paying for the ad have to gain from you voting the way they tell you to.

When it comes to candidates running for election, ignore the finger pointing. So many campaigns spend vast amounts of their time and money pointing out how their opponents have not solved the problems we face, but they never offer solutions to those problems. Pledge to write a letter to each candidate and insist they explain how they plan to make things better. Ask them to explain their positions on issues that are important to you.

After the election is over, regardless of who won, pledge to call, email, or write to your elected representatives on a regular basis. Remember they work for you, hold them accountable. Let them know your position on the issues they are dealing with. They can not represent your interests if you don’t let them know what your interests are.

Be honest with yourself and decide what issues are really the most important to you. Remember, the issues being promoted by the special interest groups are designed to stir up emotions. They are not necessarily going to be the issues which will have the most impact on your life. Is whomever the barista at Starbucks is in love with going to impact your life more than access to health care for you and your family?

If this is asking too much, then I think “Thank you for your service”  has more to do with making yourself feel good than it does with gratitude. You don’t need to waste your breath, or my time, by thanking me.